Hello again. Didn't I promise I would be better at this blogging thing? Seems as if life has once again spun me around and around to the point of my forgetting to do tasks that I want to do.
What has been going on. What has been going on? Well, there are a few stories that I can tell, but one in particular stays fresh in my mind while I am drinking my midmorning lukewarm coffee (which is delicious, trade free, and organic). My dad. My wonderful, strong, sensitive, loving father. I admire him and my mother more than I think they realize for everything that they do for me, and what they do for each other. Since my dad has been diagnosed with EC (esophageal cancer) I have seen sides to them that I have never experienced before. Heartbreak, encouragement, blind faith, weakness, hope... all these emotions at one point have been shown and felt in these long, but strangely rapidly paced couple of months. Was it just last weekend Drew, AJ, and I went and saw mom and dad? Was it just last WEEK that my dad was in the hospital, with a blood clot in his lung and a few in his leg? Was it just last week my mom and I, in spite of all of our stress, went and had a wonderful time at Chilis late on Thursday night, just talking, escaping all that has been happening, having a fantastic girls night? Yes, I guess it was. My how time flies and stays still at the same time.
I have realized a few things. Even when you are not thinking about him, God is always rooting for you. Yes, really crappy things may be happening in your life, you may be living like Job in the Bible, but God does not abandon you, even when you think He has for sure. He may have allowed my father to have cancer, but he has not stopped showing us the miracles that he can perform. Great blood count, only one tumor, a month's worth of free medication that my parents had no idea how they would be able to afford, insurance allowing the kind of radiation that my father needs, a small church constantly bringing things that they need before they even realize they need it, amazing doctors that both of my parents adore and trust... It is all God. I believe that by the time all of this is over with, my parents will have a fantastic story of God's faithfulness and the miracles that He still does, even in this modern broken world.
Mom, Dad. I completely adore and love you guys. You are an inspiration to me through your marriage and through your parenting, and I only hope that Drew and I grow to be strong and loving like you two are. Mom and Dad, I have no idea how you do it all, but you do. <3
Saturday, September 17, 2011
Thursday, August 4, 2011
phases that kids go through...
I actually enjoy most of AJ's "phases" (read: obsessions) that he goes through. It seems as if he goes through a major one about once a year. The first thing he got into was Yo Gabba Gabba. Ugh. I would be so happy if I never had to hear "There's a Party In My Tummy" or "Pool Party" again. He had bed sheets, pillows, blankets, toys, dvds, cars, trains, a dance mat, musical instruments, and even Yo Gabba Gabba microphones. And abut 90% of these toys were obnoxiously LLOOUUDD. While I supported AJ throughout his habit, he finally started to move onto something else.
Next comes the Toy Story binge. This ties into a Cars binge as well, but it did not bring havoc unto this household like Buzz Lightyear did. This all happened before the Toy Story 3 movie came out (and made me a full believer of hidden messages in television). All of the sudden he fell in love with Toy Story. And quickly he fell even more in love with Toy Story 2 because it had ZURG in it. What a great super villain to go crazy over. Who, by the way, is very hard to find online and in toy stores without spending an arm and a leg. AJ had the big Woody, the large Buzz that was exactly like the one in the movie, and for Christmas he got Bullseye and Jessie. He has a whole drawer under his bed that has nothing but his toy story items. His first movie he saw in the theaters was Toy Story 3 which he sat there, unmoving and unspeaking, for almost 2 hours except to yell "LOOK MOMMY ITS BUZZ!" when he first popped on the screen. Finally, after tiring of Randy Newman's voice, AJ decided to leave his precious toys behind, to fall into his next obsession overload.
*Sigh* this is where we land now. Super Heros. Marvel, DC, whatever, he loves them all. Transformers, Super Hero Squad, Batman, Spiderman, Ironman, The Flash, Human Torch, Fantastic 4, WHATEVER. If it even remotely looks like a super hero, he will like it. His Grammy found him a Spiderman suitcase for free, and that now is FULL of his collection of super hero memorabilia. He has a Captain America lunchbox with all of his Super Hero Squad figures. And another little lunchbox with all of his tiny Transformer toys. He has a whole DVD shelf dedicated to superhero movies. He knows where the super hero section is in the toy store as well as the movie store. His favorite song is the theme song to The Avengers TV show. He shouts it on the top of his lungs, particularly when he is in the shower. It took me months to figure out what song he was singing. Soon, because this is a phase that I actually have been enjoying, I will probably decorate his room in various super hero decals (that can come off without a problem and be replaced with, I don't know, dinosaurs or something).
Why am I talking about this? I was thinking about it. When was the last time I went through a phase like this? If I could have such passion towards something like AJ does, think of the things that I could accomplish! Heaven forbid I start showing such passion and obsession towards God! He knows I love Him, but goodness there are so many areas in my life I could improve in if I just had that kind of passion towards it. Something to think about. What kind of obsessions/passions do you have in your life or your children??
Next comes the Toy Story binge. This ties into a Cars binge as well, but it did not bring havoc unto this household like Buzz Lightyear did. This all happened before the Toy Story 3 movie came out (and made me a full believer of hidden messages in television). All of the sudden he fell in love with Toy Story. And quickly he fell even more in love with Toy Story 2 because it had ZURG in it. What a great super villain to go crazy over. Who, by the way, is very hard to find online and in toy stores without spending an arm and a leg. AJ had the big Woody, the large Buzz that was exactly like the one in the movie, and for Christmas he got Bullseye and Jessie. He has a whole drawer under his bed that has nothing but his toy story items. His first movie he saw in the theaters was Toy Story 3 which he sat there, unmoving and unspeaking, for almost 2 hours except to yell "LOOK MOMMY ITS BUZZ!" when he first popped on the screen. Finally, after tiring of Randy Newman's voice, AJ decided to leave his precious toys behind, to fall into his next obsession overload.
*Sigh* this is where we land now. Super Heros. Marvel, DC, whatever, he loves them all. Transformers, Super Hero Squad, Batman, Spiderman, Ironman, The Flash, Human Torch, Fantastic 4, WHATEVER. If it even remotely looks like a super hero, he will like it. His Grammy found him a Spiderman suitcase for free, and that now is FULL of his collection of super hero memorabilia. He has a Captain America lunchbox with all of his Super Hero Squad figures. And another little lunchbox with all of his tiny Transformer toys. He has a whole DVD shelf dedicated to superhero movies. He knows where the super hero section is in the toy store as well as the movie store. His favorite song is the theme song to The Avengers TV show. He shouts it on the top of his lungs, particularly when he is in the shower. It took me months to figure out what song he was singing. Soon, because this is a phase that I actually have been enjoying, I will probably decorate his room in various super hero decals (that can come off without a problem and be replaced with, I don't know, dinosaurs or something).
Why am I talking about this? I was thinking about it. When was the last time I went through a phase like this? If I could have such passion towards something like AJ does, think of the things that I could accomplish! Heaven forbid I start showing such passion and obsession towards God! He knows I love Him, but goodness there are so many areas in my life I could improve in if I just had that kind of passion towards it. Something to think about. What kind of obsessions/passions do you have in your life or your children??
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Its been... a couple of years!
I keep saying I am going to become a blogger. Again. It is kind of hard when the "o" key on the keyboard of this slow computer doesn't work half of the time (I can thank AJ for that one I think...)
But I will try. It has been a trying summer. It is like God is really trying to strengthen me up. Lets see what has gone on...
1. My wonderful Minter family dog, Kramer, who we have had since I was 11, had to be put to sleep due to health issues. Ouch.
2. I became pregnant. I had my first ultrasound due to a minor complication and they wanted to give me one just to make me feel better. I'm glad that they did. They found an enlarged yolksac. And a heartbeat. And a baby that was 2 weeks under developed. At 8 weeks pregnant all of this is a huge deal, and the yolksac that was enlarged usually means that the baby has something chromosmally wrong with it and will miscarry. But there was a heartbeat! Sadly, a week later we had another ultrasound and there was no heartbeat. I had a D & C procedure done the day after Drew and mine's 4th anniversary. Needless to say, in spite of us not feeling much like celebrating, Drew got me a beautiful bright arrangement of flowers that were delivered on our anniversary. A bright spot in my rainy day. Double ouch.
3. A week after that I had a mental breakdown. Those close to me knows what happened. I am now on medication that has helped and am seeing a great therapist who is really helping me with some underlying issues I need worked on. This all goes along with the Double ouch with an ounce of crazy thrown in.
4. This is the big one. We found out about a week and a half ago that my daddy has esophageal cancer. It is stage 2/ early stage 3. They say that they are very confident about dad being able to beat this, and yesterday my dad started his first round of chemo. I have to put my faith in God like I never have before. Put my faith in these doctors I have never met. I don't like seeing my dad in pain, it hurts my heart. But I am putting my faith in God that this will all work out, and that my dad will pull through this. Those who know me knows how hard it is. I like feeling like I have control of situations, and with this situation I have no control whats so ever, except for praying and telling Dad how much I love and support him throughout all of this. Since putting my faith in God and giving all of this up to Him some pretty great stuff has been happening- great in spite of cancer. Dad has to have less chemo than originally thought. He only has one tumor and one lymph node that needs to be removed. He has not gotten sick yet from the chemo. He loves his doctors and has felt really encouraged. His blood work is great. He has a great outlook on things which I totally admire him for. I pray that this fight will continue to be such a positive one, and that dad's testimony throughout all of this will be encouraging to somebody who needs encouragement in a scary time.
God can speak to you in some pretty obvious ways. At least thats what I have found- I think God knows I need more than subtile hints about things as important as this. When we found out the diagnosis of dad's cancer, the following Sunday I was scheduled to spend the day on stage at Kid Kraze at WEC. So glad I did because the whole lesson really spoke to me. It was about persevering through tough times which I really really really need to do. And there was a Captain Anxiety in the video the kids watched. As a person who struggles with anxiety, listening to that video made me laugh and realize how silly and insignificant my anxiety can seem at times. And a couple of days later I was thinking about everything that was going on and getting a little bummed out about it, and a verse pops on the TV (the kids were watching some veggie tales episode they saw on Netflix I had never seen before) about persevering as well. OK God, I can take a hint- I need to keep pushing through everything that is hard with a good attitude and wise choices. And I need to be encouraging to those who need it, especially my family!
I am now reading Psalms 91 by Peggy Joyce Ruth, thanks to my wonderful friend Lindsey Brooks. It is really great and encouraging, reminding me of all of God's promises of protection. So I close my blogging for the night and my wanting to curse my "o" key on this darn keyboard, with a quote from the verses Psalms 91: 9-13,
"9 If you say, “The LORD is my refuge,”
and you make the Most High your dwelling,
10 no harm will overtake you,
no disaster will come near your tent.
11 For he will command his angels concerning you
to guard you in all your ways;
12 they will lift you up in their hands,
so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.
13 You will tread on the lion and the cobra;
you will trample the great lion and the serpent."
But I will try. It has been a trying summer. It is like God is really trying to strengthen me up. Lets see what has gone on...
1. My wonderful Minter family dog, Kramer, who we have had since I was 11, had to be put to sleep due to health issues. Ouch.
2. I became pregnant. I had my first ultrasound due to a minor complication and they wanted to give me one just to make me feel better. I'm glad that they did. They found an enlarged yolksac. And a heartbeat. And a baby that was 2 weeks under developed. At 8 weeks pregnant all of this is a huge deal, and the yolksac that was enlarged usually means that the baby has something chromosmally wrong with it and will miscarry. But there was a heartbeat! Sadly, a week later we had another ultrasound and there was no heartbeat. I had a D & C procedure done the day after Drew and mine's 4th anniversary. Needless to say, in spite of us not feeling much like celebrating, Drew got me a beautiful bright arrangement of flowers that were delivered on our anniversary. A bright spot in my rainy day. Double ouch.
3. A week after that I had a mental breakdown. Those close to me knows what happened. I am now on medication that has helped and am seeing a great therapist who is really helping me with some underlying issues I need worked on. This all goes along with the Double ouch with an ounce of crazy thrown in.
4. This is the big one. We found out about a week and a half ago that my daddy has esophageal cancer. It is stage 2/ early stage 3. They say that they are very confident about dad being able to beat this, and yesterday my dad started his first round of chemo. I have to put my faith in God like I never have before. Put my faith in these doctors I have never met. I don't like seeing my dad in pain, it hurts my heart. But I am putting my faith in God that this will all work out, and that my dad will pull through this. Those who know me knows how hard it is. I like feeling like I have control of situations, and with this situation I have no control whats so ever, except for praying and telling Dad how much I love and support him throughout all of this. Since putting my faith in God and giving all of this up to Him some pretty great stuff has been happening- great in spite of cancer. Dad has to have less chemo than originally thought. He only has one tumor and one lymph node that needs to be removed. He has not gotten sick yet from the chemo. He loves his doctors and has felt really encouraged. His blood work is great. He has a great outlook on things which I totally admire him for. I pray that this fight will continue to be such a positive one, and that dad's testimony throughout all of this will be encouraging to somebody who needs encouragement in a scary time.
God can speak to you in some pretty obvious ways. At least thats what I have found- I think God knows I need more than subtile hints about things as important as this. When we found out the diagnosis of dad's cancer, the following Sunday I was scheduled to spend the day on stage at Kid Kraze at WEC. So glad I did because the whole lesson really spoke to me. It was about persevering through tough times which I really really really need to do. And there was a Captain Anxiety in the video the kids watched. As a person who struggles with anxiety, listening to that video made me laugh and realize how silly and insignificant my anxiety can seem at times. And a couple of days later I was thinking about everything that was going on and getting a little bummed out about it, and a verse pops on the TV (the kids were watching some veggie tales episode they saw on Netflix I had never seen before) about persevering as well. OK God, I can take a hint- I need to keep pushing through everything that is hard with a good attitude and wise choices. And I need to be encouraging to those who need it, especially my family!
I am now reading Psalms 91 by Peggy Joyce Ruth, thanks to my wonderful friend Lindsey Brooks. It is really great and encouraging, reminding me of all of God's promises of protection. So I close my blogging for the night and my wanting to curse my "o" key on this darn keyboard, with a quote from the verses Psalms 91: 9-13,
"9 If you say, “The LORD is my refuge,”
and you make the Most High your dwelling,
10 no harm will overtake you,
no disaster will come near your tent.
11 For he will command his angels concerning you
to guard you in all your ways;
12 they will lift you up in their hands,
so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.
13 You will tread on the lion and the cobra;
you will trample the great lion and the serpent."
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
bags, church, and books oh my!
Bags:
I went to a wonderful party hosted by the wonderful Bethany P. It was for a "bag" line called 31. 31 is based on Proverbs 31, which concentrates on women and that they all deserve to have something beautiful!!!! Anyway, Jessie, Katie, and I fell in <3LOVE<3 with many of the fall items, as well as the couple of summery items we picked out. Because of this, we decided that we are hosting our OWN party, here, at my house, on the first Friday in October. I am super excited about it-- we will have fresh treats and plenty of laughs. Everybody is invited!!!
Church:
This Sunday Stu talked about communion. It was meaningful, because he really touched basis with some things that I have never connected before with the Lord's supper. It was one of those sermons that you know you will never forget, even if they didn't have a Mini Cooper on the stage at one point in time.... haha! I will always associate communion now with more of a spiritual awakening. A reminder that JESUS was the innocent lamb that was slain and put across the top of our heart's doorway, so that God's judgement may pass over our sinful nature and that we may live. *sigh* I love mini revelations that pop out like that.
Books:
I just finished reading this delightful little delicacy called "What-in-the-dickens" by Gregory McGuire. You may recognize him as the guy who wrote the "Wicked" trilogy. Anyway, this book I believe is more centered around the younger crowd, and it was so much fun to read! About the little creatures that deem themselves as skebereens, who don upon the coat of the lable "tooth fairy". They collect teeth and plant them, and they turn into wishing candles in which they replace one ordinary candle in the bunch with this magical wishing candle, in hopes that humans will continue to have imagination, hopes, and dreams. I'd recommend it to anybody who likes a good tale! I may even tell this one to AJ when he gets older!!!!!
I went to a wonderful party hosted by the wonderful Bethany P. It was for a "bag" line called 31. 31 is based on Proverbs 31, which concentrates on women and that they all deserve to have something beautiful!!!! Anyway, Jessie, Katie, and I fell in <3LOVE<3 with many of the fall items, as well as the couple of summery items we picked out. Because of this, we decided that we are hosting our OWN party, here, at my house, on the first Friday in October. I am super excited about it-- we will have fresh treats and plenty of laughs. Everybody is invited!!!
Church:
This Sunday Stu talked about communion. It was meaningful, because he really touched basis with some things that I have never connected before with the Lord's supper. It was one of those sermons that you know you will never forget, even if they didn't have a Mini Cooper on the stage at one point in time.... haha! I will always associate communion now with more of a spiritual awakening. A reminder that JESUS was the innocent lamb that was slain and put across the top of our heart's doorway, so that God's judgement may pass over our sinful nature and that we may live. *sigh* I love mini revelations that pop out like that.
Books:
I just finished reading this delightful little delicacy called "What-in-the-dickens" by Gregory McGuire. You may recognize him as the guy who wrote the "Wicked" trilogy. Anyway, this book I believe is more centered around the younger crowd, and it was so much fun to read! About the little creatures that deem themselves as skebereens, who don upon the coat of the lable "tooth fairy". They collect teeth and plant them, and they turn into wishing candles in which they replace one ordinary candle in the bunch with this magical wishing candle, in hopes that humans will continue to have imagination, hopes, and dreams. I'd recommend it to anybody who likes a good tale! I may even tell this one to AJ when he gets older!!!!!
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Love It!!!!!
I have finally started putting my creative thinking into action lately... I have done some random things for some random family members such as:
A Banner for Jessie's new Etsy website:
A show flyer for my brother:
and a logo for Drew, which he ended up not using, but I still liked it anyway:
On top of all of these little creative tidbits, I have found a church to call home. With much much thanks to my brother and sister in law, we finally went to Waters Edge Church for the first time a little over 3 weeks ago. The music? Fantabulous. The atmosphere? Wontabulous. The Preaching? Godtabulous! The head pastor is great-- he has a perfect personality and definitely knows how to make Christians comfortable in their skin and how to help us grow stronger with God. The other guy who preaches, Rob, is quite wonderful as well!!! He has such a great personality and is super personable with the way that he reaches out to people. These people at this church really make me want to reach out and give God a big smooch on the cheek for a THANK YOU for having such a wonderful church for my family and myself to attend to!!!
We will be joining a small group as soon as we are able, and I might also volunteer with the children in some shape or form. It is such a relief to find someplace to get involved in again-- with tons of people mine and Drews and AJ's age group. MAN I am so happy!!!!! :):):):)
A Banner for Jessie's new Etsy website:
A show flyer for my brother:
and a logo for Drew, which he ended up not using, but I still liked it anyway:
On top of all of these little creative tidbits, I have found a church to call home. With much much thanks to my brother and sister in law, we finally went to Waters Edge Church for the first time a little over 3 weeks ago. The music? Fantabulous. The atmosphere? Wontabulous. The Preaching? Godtabulous! The head pastor is great-- he has a perfect personality and definitely knows how to make Christians comfortable in their skin and how to help us grow stronger with God. The other guy who preaches, Rob, is quite wonderful as well!!! He has such a great personality and is super personable with the way that he reaches out to people. These people at this church really make me want to reach out and give God a big smooch on the cheek for a THANK YOU for having such a wonderful church for my family and myself to attend to!!!
We will be joining a small group as soon as we are able, and I might also volunteer with the children in some shape or form. It is such a relief to find someplace to get involved in again-- with tons of people mine and Drews and AJ's age group. MAN I am so happy!!!!! :):):):)
Friday, June 12, 2009
a quick cry and a quick post....
Well, since I have been off my medication my emotions have been a TRAIN WRECK!!!!!!!! I have not felt myself, been super grouchy to everybody in my path, and just been feeling downright lazy and slummish.
I need to CHEER UP!!! I need to get EXCITED about my trip tomorrow!!!! I need to figure out a way to get AJ to stop crying and to stop being in so much pain (teeth).... he has a horrible fever and his poor face is all swollen from his teeth trying to budge their way in. It makes me want to cry to see him feeling like this and to know that there is absolutely. nothing. i can do about it.
Oh, and PS. If I hear that Kelly Clarkson song "My life would suck without you" one more freakin time, I am going to throw my brand new flat keyboard into the TV so I don't have to look at or hear her anymore....
Pray for me! And our long trip tomorrow (7 hours or so)! And pray that AJ feels better! And that he won't decide to throw himself into the pool unless I am right there to catch him! And that Drew doesn't run into something or somebody run into us on the drive down there! Or that Drew will come home safely on Wed while I come home safely on Saturday! And that my father holds it together for the last sermon at YBC on Sunday (I wish I could be there....) *sigh* so many things going on....
I need to CHEER UP!!! I need to get EXCITED about my trip tomorrow!!!! I need to figure out a way to get AJ to stop crying and to stop being in so much pain (teeth).... he has a horrible fever and his poor face is all swollen from his teeth trying to budge their way in. It makes me want to cry to see him feeling like this and to know that there is absolutely. nothing. i can do about it.
Oh, and PS. If I hear that Kelly Clarkson song "My life would suck without you" one more freakin time, I am going to throw my brand new flat keyboard into the TV so I don't have to look at or hear her anymore....
Pray for me! And our long trip tomorrow (7 hours or so)! And pray that AJ feels better! And that he won't decide to throw himself into the pool unless I am right there to catch him! And that Drew doesn't run into something or somebody run into us on the drive down there! Or that Drew will come home safely on Wed while I come home safely on Saturday! And that my father holds it together for the last sermon at YBC on Sunday (I wish I could be there....) *sigh* so many things going on....
Sunday, June 7, 2009
what to pack what to pack what to pack WHAT TO PACK!?!?!
As the countdown officially begins-- we are LEAVING ON SATURDAY!!!!! Litterally my heart skipped a beat as I was typing it. That is how psyched I am about leaving Newport News (love ya, Bad News, but sometimes a girl's gotta get a break!)
So as the day comes closer, I need to start my grand list of 'what to pack, what to buy, what what WHAT?!) So, to help me with this, I am going to copy and paste a couple of things I have found online from other moms in this similar situation.
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What to Pack:
If you’ve traveled with your toddler before you know that you will be bringing more with you on vacation than you ever have in the past. With this in mind, I suggest you find out if where you are going has laundry facilities because the idea is to pack as little as possible. Also, don’t forget that you can buy most necessities there (i.e. Diapers & wipes.)
***Important NOTE: Most locations have businesses that rent equipment and toys. For big, important items (such as a crib, high chair, playpen, or stroller), you should call ahead and reserve them if possible. We rented 2 cribs (one to use as a playpen in the mornings while we showered), and a high chair. They also rent toys, VCRs (you can rent at any Blockbuster), exersaucers, etc.
• Car seat.
Please travel with your own car seat. You do NOT want to rely on a borrowed or used use, as their “history” is unknown to you. Even the slightest fender-bender can compromise the effectiveness of a car seat.
• Old favorites.
For us this meant my daughter’s favorite books, a hard wood puzzle (pieces in a bag), 2 blankets, all 4 of her miniature Teletubbie stuffed animals, and a few plastic action figures). I really think having these familiar and cherished items made the “change” in environment much easier for her. **Make sure to bring anything that is part of your “night-time routine”. For us this meant Baby Mozart video, a portable CD player, my daughter’s nighttime CD, and Po (teletubbie) slippers.
• Favorite diaper changing distraction item.
For us, this is a musical bear that she activates herself with the press of a button. Music plays and lights flash, and for some reason this object interests her change after change. I list this item separately (instead of under the “carry on” bag items) because it is THAT important to your sanity. You never know when or where you will need to change a diaper, or what your child’s mood will be. Better to bring something proven to work.
• Something New.
Consider bringing one or two things that your child has never seen before. These things will come in handy in any public place where your toddler becomes restless or cranky, including restaurants. We brought a few new board books, a plastic slinky, and the Vtech, Nursery Rhyme Land. I reviewed this toy. If you care to read it, the URL is: http://www.epinions.com/kifm review-4C07-A5EE04D-38ABD07D-prod6 .
• For Meals.
We packed disposable bibs, three real bibs, 2 baby spoons, and 2 spill proof sippy cups. The disposable bibs can be purchased in many large drug stores or from many catalogs featuring baby items. It is important to buy them before you leave so you can test them out! Many children will not leave them on. I am lucky; my daughter doesn’t mind them. If your baby will eat from a regular-sized teaspoon, you can eliminate the baby spoons.
• TWO “Travel Wipe Containers.”
Huggies makes one that you can fill up with any brand of wipes you prefer. I suggest you bring two because you will want to leave one underneath your stroller so you’ll always have some with you. And need one for your diaper bag. My philosophy is “You can NEVER have too many wipes on hand.” You never know when you will have an emergency. . .
• Small Tupperware container filled with crackers and cookies.
I like to use a small circle-shaped one. Tupperware is better than plastic bags because they protect the contents better against breakage.
• Cold pack, small collapsible cooler carrier, 2 sippy cups full of milk.
The cooler I am referring to is one of those small plastic ones that you received in the hospital after giving birth. Nowadays you can also find those collapsible lunch-box type coolers too. I placed a frozen, plastic ice pack on the bottom and packed 2 sippy cups full of milk. Naturally, you can substitute with juice or water. But since they offer those beverages on the plane and in the airports, I chose to fill mine with the organic whole milk I buy for my daughter.
• Emergency lollypop and bib.
My daughter has had the pleasure of eating a lollipop about 5 times in her life. I keep 3-4 in my diaper bag at all times in case an uncontrollable temper tantrum occurs in a very public place (where many people will be disturbed). I allow my daughter to have her temper tantrums when we are alone, but refuse to allow this behavior when it can really disturb others. She is NOT learning that she is being rewarded for her behavior because I am careful to give them to her “before” these episodes erupt. I suggest the bib because at this age, our children are not effective at “licking” and really don’t understand the whole concept behind eating a lollypop. But she does enjoy them (until her hands get too sticky). This is another time when you will be glad to have packed extra wipes. . to clean up the messy fingers and face.
• Miscellaneous, Yet Important Items.
Are these items necessary? You might not think so. But for my husband and me, it enabled us to relax a little more because we worried a little less. These items are: 6-8 socket covers, 2 small night-lights, a little screwdriver & one package of batteries. The screwdriver is for replacing batteries. If your toddler is skilled at opening doors, I would also suggest you bring a toilet lid lock.
I also brought two hats, to help shield my daughters eyes from the sun. *Try to buy hats in the correct size before you leave so you will have them immediately. A “harness” (like a leash) for those times when my daughter REALLY wanted to walk, and the surroundings were rather hectic. I also brought my daughter’s slippers because I knew from regular visits, that the tile floors in the timeshare condo we stay in when in Key West always leave feet black!
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What you DON’T NEED:
• Special towels.
Baby might prefer the softer baby towels, but we used regular towels and our daughter didn’t complain.
• Bath toys.
There are so many things that your baby can play with while in the tub. During one bath taken in the kitchen sink, my daughter reached over and grabbed a whole, unpeeled banana. She was happy dipping that in and out of the water. Be creative.
• More than one full day of diapers & wipes.
Diapers and wipes can be purchased wherever you are. Bring a few coupons in your wallet to combat the higher prices that might be charged.
Reminder NOTE: Most locations have businesses that rent equipment and toys. For big, important items (such as a crib, high chair, playpen, or stroller), you should call ahead and reserve them if possible.
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BAG O SANITY:
Digestibles: Leave the sugar at home. Granola bars, clementines, bananas, cheerios, animal crackers, juice and water are great choices. To keep the sugar factor down further, mix the water and the juice together to dilute the potency. These foods are all easy to handle and drinks can be easy too if you remember to bring your child’s sippy cup.
Toys/Entertainment: Think compact. Toys should not take up that much room in your “bag o’ sanity.” Nesting cups, legos that snap together, children’s playing cards, small dolls with layers of clothes can occupy a child’s imagination for a significant portion of your trip. Even paper and crayons can go a very long way. Packing some toys or games that the child has never seen before or hasn’t seen in a while can keep a child’s attention for even longer. Of course, if you have a portable DVD player, you can ask your child which movie s/he would like to pack, and view it when all else has failed.
Clothes: Comfort is dependant upon being warm, clean and dry. Putting your child in his “feety” pajamas (if they don’t mind their feet being covered) before the trip can ensure a comfortable trip and may even encourage sleep along the way. An extra change of clothes is invaluable because it can be used for additional layers as well as your first course of action if a spill occurs. Of course, you want these clothes to be easily accessible so that you don’t need to go into the overhead bin or the trunk of the car to retrieve them. This goes double for extra diapers. Time is of the essence when trying to keep a child from crying, screaming or yelling during a vacation trip!
Necessities: All the comfort of home. Don’t forget to pack small packets of tissues, antiseptic hand gel, hand cream, band-aids, and Tylenol (for you and for your child). In addition, if you are used to using pacifiers with your child, make sure that you bring at least 2 or 3 on your trip in case one gets lost. Beside soothing a child, a pacifier or other toys to suck on can be helpful when ears get clogged during the altitude changes. For older child, gum can work just as well. Bring Zip-lock baggies or small trash bags for dirty clothes, dirty diapers or left over food. Your child’s favorite lightweight blanket may seem like an extravagance but to a tired or sick child who regards his blanket as his buddy, it is a necessity.
Books: If your child is old enough, have him choose which book(s) he wants to bring. Books are a great way to keep a child calm and focused because it is an intimate and often “snuggly” activity. Books on tape can also work if you are juggling more than one child at a time. The great thing about books is that they can be read more than once—and you are almost guaranteed that you will know the text word for word by the end of the trip. It ain’t Shakespeare but it can be a far more productive skill to be able to quote “Elmo goes to the Circus,” at a moment’s notice, don’t you think?
Cleaning agents: Oh, the magic of wet wipes. No parent should be without them—especially on a trip when you are confined with your child for hours at a time. There are bound to be spills, dirty faces, stained clothes, and filthy surfaces to wipe down. Of course, if you have a baby, I am sure you can think of some other uses.
Genius Miscellaneous: This is really the magic of being a prepared parent. Feel like we have already covered the basics? Just wait. For parents who have a baby and need to heat up milk on a plane, just ask for a cup of hot water and place it in the thermos you remembered to bring. The bottle can easily be placed in the thermos and heat to the temperature that you desire. It is also advisable to pack bottles with disposable bags so that you do not need to worry about washing the bottle out during the trip. If your baby or toddler is in a carry car seat, you know that you must keep the handle down during travel. Pack some Velcro and hang a bunch of toys on the seat in front of the child and behind the child. You can even connect the toys from one seat to the next and make a make-shift mobile. Plastic cups can also be useful for small finger foods like cheerios so that you don’t have the urge to vacuum the floor once you have arrived at your destination.
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Remember all the stuff you carried around when your child was an infant? Double or triple that load. Now you're approaching the amount of toys, snacks, clothes, and gear you'll need to keep your toddler comfortable and entertained. Here's a checklist of things you'll need on the road, plus tips for easy, efficient packing.
Diapers
Bring extras in case of emergencies or delays
Wipes
Pad to put under your toddler during diaper changes
You can buy disposable changing pads at supermarkets or reusable ones at baby stores
Blanket(s)
Bring a few for comfort, shade, and warmth
Plastic bags
Carry a variety of sizes for storing soiled diapers, clothes, and shoes
Small bottles of disinfecting hand gel and toiletries
Tissues
Toys and books
Your child's favorites, plus several new toys for surprises along the way. Bring sturdy toys that don't have easy-to-lose parts
Your child's lovey
Clothes, socks, and shoes
One to two outfits per day is a good guideline. Denim and dark colors are good for hiding dirt and stains. Prepare for weather changes by dressing in layers.
Bathing suit
Lightweight and easy to pack, and you never know when it will come in handy
Washable bibs
Sun hat and sunscreen
Sippy cups, canteens, or bottles
Encourage your toddler to drink plenty of liquids to avoid dehydration, especially when flying
Lightweight plastic feeding set with utensils
Portable highchair to use at your destination
Snack food
Don't forget high-energy snacks for yourself, too!
Nightlight
(If your toddler uses one)
First-aid kit
Pain reliever and supplies for treating minor injuries
Laundry soap
For handwashing soiled clothes en route
Socket protectors
For childproofing rooms at your destination
Portable crib or play yard
Unless your toddler sleeps with you, or you've arranged for a crib at your destination
Car seat for travel by car or plane
Collapsible stroller
Can be gate-checked or stored in the overhead bin of an airplane
Packing Tips
Start preparing to pack a few days before you travel. Keep a running list of things to bring, or put items out on a table or dresser as you think of them.
Use a diaper bag with a waterproof lining and a shoulder strap.
Pack an extra shirt for yourself in your carry-on bag — just in case.
Prevent leaks by packing medicines and toiletries in re-sealable plastic bags.
Keep your child's outfits together in one suitcase so you can find them easily.
Take your camera — and don't forget the battery charger if it's digital, or plenty of film if not.
Bring a clip-on reading light so you can read at night without disturbing your child.
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holy moley... maybe I can convince Karen to rent a U-Haul to keep behind us......
So as the day comes closer, I need to start my grand list of 'what to pack, what to buy, what what WHAT?!) So, to help me with this, I am going to copy and paste a couple of things I have found online from other moms in this similar situation.
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What to Pack:
If you’ve traveled with your toddler before you know that you will be bringing more with you on vacation than you ever have in the past. With this in mind, I suggest you find out if where you are going has laundry facilities because the idea is to pack as little as possible. Also, don’t forget that you can buy most necessities there (i.e. Diapers & wipes.)
***Important NOTE: Most locations have businesses that rent equipment and toys. For big, important items (such as a crib, high chair, playpen, or stroller), you should call ahead and reserve them if possible. We rented 2 cribs (one to use as a playpen in the mornings while we showered), and a high chair. They also rent toys, VCRs (you can rent at any Blockbuster), exersaucers, etc.
• Car seat.
Please travel with your own car seat. You do NOT want to rely on a borrowed or used use, as their “history” is unknown to you. Even the slightest fender-bender can compromise the effectiveness of a car seat.
• Old favorites.
For us this meant my daughter’s favorite books, a hard wood puzzle (pieces in a bag), 2 blankets, all 4 of her miniature Teletubbie stuffed animals, and a few plastic action figures). I really think having these familiar and cherished items made the “change” in environment much easier for her. **Make sure to bring anything that is part of your “night-time routine”. For us this meant Baby Mozart video, a portable CD player, my daughter’s nighttime CD, and Po (teletubbie) slippers.
• Favorite diaper changing distraction item.
For us, this is a musical bear that she activates herself with the press of a button. Music plays and lights flash, and for some reason this object interests her change after change. I list this item separately (instead of under the “carry on” bag items) because it is THAT important to your sanity. You never know when or where you will need to change a diaper, or what your child’s mood will be. Better to bring something proven to work.
• Something New.
Consider bringing one or two things that your child has never seen before. These things will come in handy in any public place where your toddler becomes restless or cranky, including restaurants. We brought a few new board books, a plastic slinky, and the Vtech, Nursery Rhyme Land. I reviewed this toy. If you care to read it, the URL is: http://www.epinions.com/kifm review-4C07-A5EE04D-38ABD07D-prod6 .
• For Meals.
We packed disposable bibs, three real bibs, 2 baby spoons, and 2 spill proof sippy cups. The disposable bibs can be purchased in many large drug stores or from many catalogs featuring baby items. It is important to buy them before you leave so you can test them out! Many children will not leave them on. I am lucky; my daughter doesn’t mind them. If your baby will eat from a regular-sized teaspoon, you can eliminate the baby spoons.
• TWO “Travel Wipe Containers.”
Huggies makes one that you can fill up with any brand of wipes you prefer. I suggest you bring two because you will want to leave one underneath your stroller so you’ll always have some with you. And need one for your diaper bag. My philosophy is “You can NEVER have too many wipes on hand.” You never know when you will have an emergency. . .
• Small Tupperware container filled with crackers and cookies.
I like to use a small circle-shaped one. Tupperware is better than plastic bags because they protect the contents better against breakage.
• Cold pack, small collapsible cooler carrier, 2 sippy cups full of milk.
The cooler I am referring to is one of those small plastic ones that you received in the hospital after giving birth. Nowadays you can also find those collapsible lunch-box type coolers too. I placed a frozen, plastic ice pack on the bottom and packed 2 sippy cups full of milk. Naturally, you can substitute with juice or water. But since they offer those beverages on the plane and in the airports, I chose to fill mine with the organic whole milk I buy for my daughter.
• Emergency lollypop and bib.
My daughter has had the pleasure of eating a lollipop about 5 times in her life. I keep 3-4 in my diaper bag at all times in case an uncontrollable temper tantrum occurs in a very public place (where many people will be disturbed). I allow my daughter to have her temper tantrums when we are alone, but refuse to allow this behavior when it can really disturb others. She is NOT learning that she is being rewarded for her behavior because I am careful to give them to her “before” these episodes erupt. I suggest the bib because at this age, our children are not effective at “licking” and really don’t understand the whole concept behind eating a lollypop. But she does enjoy them (until her hands get too sticky). This is another time when you will be glad to have packed extra wipes. . to clean up the messy fingers and face.
• Miscellaneous, Yet Important Items.
Are these items necessary? You might not think so. But for my husband and me, it enabled us to relax a little more because we worried a little less. These items are: 6-8 socket covers, 2 small night-lights, a little screwdriver & one package of batteries. The screwdriver is for replacing batteries. If your toddler is skilled at opening doors, I would also suggest you bring a toilet lid lock.
I also brought two hats, to help shield my daughters eyes from the sun. *Try to buy hats in the correct size before you leave so you will have them immediately. A “harness” (like a leash) for those times when my daughter REALLY wanted to walk, and the surroundings were rather hectic. I also brought my daughter’s slippers because I knew from regular visits, that the tile floors in the timeshare condo we stay in when in Key West always leave feet black!
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What you DON’T NEED:
• Special towels.
Baby might prefer the softer baby towels, but we used regular towels and our daughter didn’t complain.
• Bath toys.
There are so many things that your baby can play with while in the tub. During one bath taken in the kitchen sink, my daughter reached over and grabbed a whole, unpeeled banana. She was happy dipping that in and out of the water. Be creative.
• More than one full day of diapers & wipes.
Diapers and wipes can be purchased wherever you are. Bring a few coupons in your wallet to combat the higher prices that might be charged.
Reminder NOTE: Most locations have businesses that rent equipment and toys. For big, important items (such as a crib, high chair, playpen, or stroller), you should call ahead and reserve them if possible.
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BAG O SANITY:
Digestibles: Leave the sugar at home. Granola bars, clementines, bananas, cheerios, animal crackers, juice and water are great choices. To keep the sugar factor down further, mix the water and the juice together to dilute the potency. These foods are all easy to handle and drinks can be easy too if you remember to bring your child’s sippy cup.
Toys/Entertainment: Think compact. Toys should not take up that much room in your “bag o’ sanity.” Nesting cups, legos that snap together, children’s playing cards, small dolls with layers of clothes can occupy a child’s imagination for a significant portion of your trip. Even paper and crayons can go a very long way. Packing some toys or games that the child has never seen before or hasn’t seen in a while can keep a child’s attention for even longer. Of course, if you have a portable DVD player, you can ask your child which movie s/he would like to pack, and view it when all else has failed.
Clothes: Comfort is dependant upon being warm, clean and dry. Putting your child in his “feety” pajamas (if they don’t mind their feet being covered) before the trip can ensure a comfortable trip and may even encourage sleep along the way. An extra change of clothes is invaluable because it can be used for additional layers as well as your first course of action if a spill occurs. Of course, you want these clothes to be easily accessible so that you don’t need to go into the overhead bin or the trunk of the car to retrieve them. This goes double for extra diapers. Time is of the essence when trying to keep a child from crying, screaming or yelling during a vacation trip!
Necessities: All the comfort of home. Don’t forget to pack small packets of tissues, antiseptic hand gel, hand cream, band-aids, and Tylenol (for you and for your child). In addition, if you are used to using pacifiers with your child, make sure that you bring at least 2 or 3 on your trip in case one gets lost. Beside soothing a child, a pacifier or other toys to suck on can be helpful when ears get clogged during the altitude changes. For older child, gum can work just as well. Bring Zip-lock baggies or small trash bags for dirty clothes, dirty diapers or left over food. Your child’s favorite lightweight blanket may seem like an extravagance but to a tired or sick child who regards his blanket as his buddy, it is a necessity.
Books: If your child is old enough, have him choose which book(s) he wants to bring. Books are a great way to keep a child calm and focused because it is an intimate and often “snuggly” activity. Books on tape can also work if you are juggling more than one child at a time. The great thing about books is that they can be read more than once—and you are almost guaranteed that you will know the text word for word by the end of the trip. It ain’t Shakespeare but it can be a far more productive skill to be able to quote “Elmo goes to the Circus,” at a moment’s notice, don’t you think?
Cleaning agents: Oh, the magic of wet wipes. No parent should be without them—especially on a trip when you are confined with your child for hours at a time. There are bound to be spills, dirty faces, stained clothes, and filthy surfaces to wipe down. Of course, if you have a baby, I am sure you can think of some other uses.
Genius Miscellaneous: This is really the magic of being a prepared parent. Feel like we have already covered the basics? Just wait. For parents who have a baby and need to heat up milk on a plane, just ask for a cup of hot water and place it in the thermos you remembered to bring. The bottle can easily be placed in the thermos and heat to the temperature that you desire. It is also advisable to pack bottles with disposable bags so that you do not need to worry about washing the bottle out during the trip. If your baby or toddler is in a carry car seat, you know that you must keep the handle down during travel. Pack some Velcro and hang a bunch of toys on the seat in front of the child and behind the child. You can even connect the toys from one seat to the next and make a make-shift mobile. Plastic cups can also be useful for small finger foods like cheerios so that you don’t have the urge to vacuum the floor once you have arrived at your destination.
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Remember all the stuff you carried around when your child was an infant? Double or triple that load. Now you're approaching the amount of toys, snacks, clothes, and gear you'll need to keep your toddler comfortable and entertained. Here's a checklist of things you'll need on the road, plus tips for easy, efficient packing.
Diapers
Bring extras in case of emergencies or delays
Wipes
Pad to put under your toddler during diaper changes
You can buy disposable changing pads at supermarkets or reusable ones at baby stores
Blanket(s)
Bring a few for comfort, shade, and warmth
Plastic bags
Carry a variety of sizes for storing soiled diapers, clothes, and shoes
Small bottles of disinfecting hand gel and toiletries
Tissues
Toys and books
Your child's favorites, plus several new toys for surprises along the way. Bring sturdy toys that don't have easy-to-lose parts
Your child's lovey
Clothes, socks, and shoes
One to two outfits per day is a good guideline. Denim and dark colors are good for hiding dirt and stains. Prepare for weather changes by dressing in layers.
Bathing suit
Lightweight and easy to pack, and you never know when it will come in handy
Washable bibs
Sun hat and sunscreen
Sippy cups, canteens, or bottles
Encourage your toddler to drink plenty of liquids to avoid dehydration, especially when flying
Lightweight plastic feeding set with utensils
Portable highchair to use at your destination
Snack food
Don't forget high-energy snacks for yourself, too!
Nightlight
(If your toddler uses one)
First-aid kit
Pain reliever and supplies for treating minor injuries
Laundry soap
For handwashing soiled clothes en route
Socket protectors
For childproofing rooms at your destination
Portable crib or play yard
Unless your toddler sleeps with you, or you've arranged for a crib at your destination
Car seat for travel by car or plane
Collapsible stroller
Can be gate-checked or stored in the overhead bin of an airplane
Packing Tips
Start preparing to pack a few days before you travel. Keep a running list of things to bring, or put items out on a table or dresser as you think of them.
Use a diaper bag with a waterproof lining and a shoulder strap.
Pack an extra shirt for yourself in your carry-on bag — just in case.
Prevent leaks by packing medicines and toiletries in re-sealable plastic bags.
Keep your child's outfits together in one suitcase so you can find them easily.
Take your camera — and don't forget the battery charger if it's digital, or plenty of film if not.
Bring a clip-on reading light so you can read at night without disturbing your child.
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holy moley... maybe I can convince Karen to rent a U-Haul to keep behind us......
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